Miuccia Advice

"I'm tired of being so sweet," declared Miuccia Prada. "We women should go back to strength—and the sober side. Stop trying to appeal to everyone, and go out into the world."
[Fall 2006 Collection]
My favorite pair of shoes--towering and comfortable--a gift from the gorgeous and lovely Kalina, is from this collection. I look back on this season now, with a newfound reverence--no gimmicks, no elaborate references, just beautiful elements of a wardrobe. A woman who takes herself seriously, unwaveringly, is the most powerful thing--and something others love to trample on. Stop pleasing others. Beautiful parkas, knits, furs, and pencil flannel trousers help!

Kalina went out into the world, or rather, she left New York City for another part of the world. She doesn't realize that this was very brave and inspiring to me. This post is a highly-tangential-inter-continental vote of confidence that Kalina is going to come out on top. And a lot of the trick to growing up is that you can't sweet-talk your way there--that it's hard and isolating and a hotbed for self-doubt. I'm about to head to Los Angeles, and whether it works out or doesn't, it's important to remember to be your own thing and know it. Such a moody wardrobe for L.A. huh? Well I have to represent New York, in all of it's layering, blackgreytanbrownbeigenudeputtyeggshell glory.